Ok so It has been quite some time since I cut my relations off with Dani. About 3 months, I’d say. I think I’ve seen him/talked to him a total of 5 times in 3 months. We used to talk at least 3 times a week. Whatever. Normally when I get involved with a guy and I cut it off, I forget about them completely. Another one tossed to the wind. I’m not one to pine over my ex and continue to keep in contact with them.
Since I have a limited set of friends here in Jujuy and Dani is part of a group of my 10 friends I figured we could put our silly past behind us and go back to being friends if I gave him some time and some space.
This past month I have texted him casually inviting him to hang out and we did hang out once. It was fine and I thought we were back to normal. Since then, I have texted him about 2 times to get together and he said in a nutshell “if I’m not doing something else, i’ll text you.” Oh really? Thanks, asshole.
I can’t be stupid and think that boys are just lame in the US. They are lame everywhere and no matter how good of friends you start off as, if you get involved with each other you immediately ruin all chances of continuing a normal friendship.
I guess I don’t really care if Dani and I are friends anymore. I have other friends that want to hang out with me and I enjoy their company more. I just thought I’d give him one last chance before he became just another aquaintance that I saw on the street and said hi and goodbye to. What a shame…